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Is natural hair hard work?

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A couple of weeks ago I met a lovely woman with relaxed hair who told me that as much as she enjoys watching and learning from women with natural hair, she’ll probably never go natural. Why? Because natural hair is “too much hard work,” she said.

So it got me thinking. Is it really?

I mean it definitely can be, with so many steps that can be involved: Prepooing, co-washing, clarifying, tea rinsing, deep conditioning, oil rinsing, moisturising with the LCO / LOC method, finger detangling, protective styling, retwisting / rebraiding at night, sleeping on silk pillowcases etc. The list of steps can seem never-ending and in fact quite daunting, especially if you are newly natural. And if you’re contemplating going natural it can probably put someone off completely just listening to all these terms.

But for me the stand-out message is: The more effort and care you put into your hair, the better off your hair will be. I’m not saying you should incorporate all these steps, but listening to your hair and giving it exactly what it needs, will stand you in good stead. It stands to reason if your hair is dry and prone to breakage, regular deep conditioning sessions and responsible protective styling will trap moisture and help you to retain length.

So it’s all relative – what may be hard work to one may be a walk in the park for someone else.

Although I agree that natural hair can be hard work, it doesn’t have to be. A very simple regime can consist out of the following steps: wash, deep condition and style by applying a leave-in conditioner and sealing with an oil or butter, followed by regular moisturising until the next wash day. Easy right? What’s so hard about that? But it seems that the term “natural” equates “unmanageable”  for some. It really doesn’t have to be that way. In a nutshell, all it takes is learning as much about your hair as possible. Find out what it likes and dislikes. For example,  detangling sessions do not have to take over your entire Saturday. If your hair tangles easily, wear it in a way that enables an easier wash day, such as in twists or in a bun.

When I was relaxed, I personally didn’t take as much care of my hair as I do now. I didn’t even know the term “deep conditioning” existed and didn’t bat an eyelid every time I would pull a comb through my hair and  heaps of it would come out. Now I’m meticulous in looking at how much hair I lose every single time I detangle and I make sure to distinguish between breakage and shed hair. So I think why it often seems like hard work to some is because of the new awareness that comes with caring for natural hair. You’re aware that you have to be extra gentle; you’re aware that if you don’t moisturise often, your hair will probably snap off due to dryness, and you’re aware that if you don’t trim those split ends, it can cause more irreparable damage.

Once you know how to handle your hair it’s really not hard work. Simply learn as much about your strands so that it becomes manageable.

What do you think Girls? Please weigh in by commenting below.

Love your curls,




  1. March 8, 2016 / 11:05 pm

    I really dont feel that it is hard work. I felt the same way before going natural. As you said, simple routine is needed and once you get used to it, in no time it will “a walk in the park”. Yes, it does require effort but once you see hpw badly you were treating your hair and start noticing how healthy it becomes you will have no regrets and your hair will thank you!

  2. March 9, 2016 / 3:31 pm

    Mine is not hard work I decided to stick to a routine that suits my hair and not follow trends, and it helps.

  3. Cotneigh
    March 18, 2016 / 7:03 pm

    I was talking to my mother about this last night. When I started out all I heard was how much work natural hair is and this and that. At one point I thought I was doing something wrong because detangling(without loosing hair) wasn’t 10 years and all those other shinanigans. I’ve been natural two years and I literally found what works for my hair less than a month ago. So it really is a journey, and what works for another natural WILL not work for you. I can go on, on this subject (probably the reason why so many people don’t consider going natural lol) but what I’ve shortened the story to: “enjoy the journey mehn”

    • March 18, 2016 / 8:02 pm

      Couldn’t agree more Hun. I definitely is a journey, and through my years of being natural, parts of my routine have also changed as my lifestyle and circumstances have changed. So just have to go with the flow and enjoy the ride 🙂

  4. August 31, 2016 / 9:13 am

    I have been natural for the last 6 years now and I can have never felt that it’s hard work. It actually made my life less complicated!

    • eleanorjadore
      August 31, 2016 / 1:59 pm

      That’s awesome. I’ve been seeing comments from people lately that it’s just too much for them and that they want to go back to their relaxer days 🙁

  5. Tiffany Gamiet
    January 10, 2017 / 9:24 pm

    Love!!!! I feel as though it will only be hard if you try to manipulate your hair to exist in a form that it doesn’t want to.
    I fully agree with listening to what your hair needs in order to thrive the best- that would be in strength and moisture.

    I relaxed my hair well over a decade and l can tell you that it’s waaaaaaay more work maintaining that state than a natural state. OMG!! The constant actual relaxing, it’s an excruciating process. I mean it’s sodium hydroxide you’re putting on your scalp!! I remember getting it under my nails and they would turn yellow and literally pain for hours! The constant blow drying, flat ironing, scheduling your whole life around your hair being “presentable” or not, lying about how your roots went from fuzzy one day to super straight the next, the breakage, trying to cover up the breakage… argh the list went on! It’s way more freeing letting go of all that

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