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The jumper, skirt and coat featured are from Really Wild Clothing. Shop them in the current Black Friday Sale. Receive an additional 10% off on 27th and 28th November 2023 in the Flash Cyber Monday Sale.
You can also use code “ELEANORBF15 for 15% off the Really Wild Clothing Autumn/Winter’23 Collection / full price items (excluding leather and shearling) – valid until 1st of December 2023.
As the holiday season approaches, you may be mindful of the subtle anxiety that comes with choosing a festive wardrobe. Especially for us middle-aged women, stepping into bolder-than-usual Christmas outfits can feel unnerving. From some of the comments and questions I’ve received on Instagram, I’m aware that this can be a daunting aspect for many. Fear not, I’ve got the perfect guide to help you rock those attention-grabbing outfits with confidence and flair!
1. Start Small: Dip Your Toes into Boldness
If the idea of a sequined jumpsuit or a vibrant red dress feels overwhelming, start with smaller doses of boldness. Add a pop of colour to your usual ensemble with a statement accessory – perhaps a bold pair of earrings or a vibrant scarf. Gradually easing into a more daring style will allow you to embrace the festive spirit without feeling like you’ve stepped too far out of your comfort zone.
2. Familiar Silhouettes in Unfamiliar Colours: Find Your Balance
Opt for silhouettes and styles that you’re comfortable with, but experiment with colours that are a departure from your usual palette. If you’re a fan of tailored trousers, try a deep emerald green or a rich burgundy like this pair instead of your usual neutrals. This way, you can maintain the familiarity of your favourite cuts while adding a touch of festive vibrancy.
3. Layer with Confidence: A Festive Security Blanket
Layering can be your best friend when it comes to embracing bolder choices. Whether it’s a chic blazer or a stylish shawl, having an extra layer can provide a sense of security. Plus, it allows you to control how much attention you attract, giving you the power to reveal or conceal as you see fit.
4. Seek Comfort in Statement Accessories: Express Yourself in Small Doses
Accessories can be a subtle gateway to bolder fashion choices. A bold statement necklace or a dazzling clutch can allow you to express your festive spirit without feeling exposed. Remember, confidence doesn’t always mean going all out – it can also be about the small, purposeful choices you make.
5. Plan Ahead: Alleviate Last-Minute Fashion Fears
Planning your festive wardrobe in advance can significantly reduce the stress associated with bold outfit choices. Take your time to mix and match, try different combinations, and gradually build up to the final look. Knowing you have a well-thought-out ensemble waiting in your closet can boost your confidence and make the process much more enjoyable.
6. Positive Self-Talk: Your Best Style Ally
As you explore bolder fashion choices, remember that the mirror is your ally, not your adversary. Practice positive self-talk and focus on the aspects of yourself that you love. Remind yourself that you deserve to feel fabulous in whatever you choose to wear, and the festive season is the perfect time to embrace a new level of self-expression.
SHOP THE POST
The jumper, skirt and coat featured are from Really Wild Clothing. Shop them in the current Black Friday Sale. Receive an additional 10% off on 27th and 28th November 2023 in the Flash Cyber Monday Sale.
You can also use code “ELEANORBF15 for 15% off the Really Wild Clothing Autumn/Winter’23 Collection / full price items (excluding leather and shearling) – valid until 1st of December 2023.
7. Share the Joy: Seek Support from Fashion-Forward Friends
Sometimes, all it takes is a supportive friend or two to turn fashion anxiety into festive excitement. Share your wardrobe choices with friends who have an eye for style and seek their advice. Having a fashion-forward support system can provide the encouragement you need to step confidently into your bolder-than-usual Christmas outfit.
Have a Merry Christmas!
A simple overarching rule to follow is if you feel uneasy or insecure in your outfit, style it differently or choose something else. Allow yourself to be free of that unnecessary worry and anxiety. You’re supposed to be having fun!
I really hope you found this helpful.
Eleanor, xx
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